Anonymous asked this question on 5/2/2000:

I'm constantly getting the urge to have a baby. I'm old enough (30) but I'm not married and am still in the early stages of my career, so it's gotta wait. I was always a late bloomer.

My life is okay now but once in a while I get thoughts on how wonderful it would be to create a life and love it. I shower my three baby nephews with alot of attention when I visit them and am always the first to visit when a friend has given birth.

Any advice, please?

Sex_Guru gave this response on 5/4/2000:

Only you can know what is right for your own life. Being single does not necessarily limit you from having a child but if you want your career to take off, then you should wait. Unfortunately, there is never a PERFECT time to have kids. You just have to decide that you are ready, willing and able and do it. Your whole life is going to change after you have a kid so be prepared. At least when you babysit, you can give it back and go home. When it's yours, you have to take it home with you.

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