Scientology
With titillation galore, for some reason Scientology thinks the
Nigerian government is interested in their usual scurrilous
statements about Vaughn and Stacy.
Probably in a concessionary moment to the Moslem faith of the
Nigerian delegation, Scientology sought to soften their trashing
of Vaughn and Stacy by making such patently absurd statements as
the following:
"This story is not an attempt to just trash the Youngs, but to
provide an accurate perspective from which to understand how
they arrived at the point where they abandoned their own
spiritual enlightenment and turned to evil, where they now find
themselves in the pay of an extremely unscrupulous attorney (who
has been accused by a former associate of having sex with minor
boys)."
Further attempting to justify their flagrant character
assassination of the Youngs, the Scientologists wrote that "No
one wishes to see the Youngs suffer. On the contrary they have
been repeatedly warned against the course they have embarked
upon, not because of anything the church would do, but because
they are now driven by a mixture of hatred and greed and are
being trapped by their own destructive acts despite the pain it
is bringing to their lives."
Their DA section is shown below.
Factually, Vaughn and Stacy's Young's own unfaithfulness and
deceit toward each other is the real reason their marriage was
failing at the time this statement was made and it would not be
surprising if this same sort of thing was going on today given
their long record of unfaithfulness toward not only each other,
but to their friends, former spouses and family. This surely
cannot be blamed on anyone but themselves. Though Vaughn and
Stacy have glorified their departure from the Church for
purposes of interest and to enhance their ability to entice
newspapers and magazines to pay them (mainly the German
publications), to any impartial observer it is certain that
there is two sides to every story. The other side of the story
requires one examine their history of betrayal in their personal
relationships and in so doing a strong argument could be made
that the real story includes the factor that Vaughn and Stacy
failed to remain in the Church because they were continually
dishonest with others and with themselves. When the betrayal
became too great, and the Youngs lost for money overcame them,
the only way to ease their conscience was to belittle, ridicule
to make it appear that they were the victims.
One of the first problems the Youngs encountered while members
of the Church, was when they began a relationship by sexually
cheating on their respective spouses. This was hardly something
which could be expected to be condoned. Trust and loyalty are
among the qualities most admired by Scientologists and by many
people. This quality is very important when one is helping
another to reach spiritual enlightenment through auditing in the
Church and it is a very important quality in any, civilized
society. Despite this, the Youngs chose to begin their
relationship while Vaughn was receiving basic levels of
religious counselling from Stacy.
Unbelievably, the Youngs now promote themselves as "experts,"
yet, having sex with someone whom you are supposed to be
counselling is a grave ethical violation and no "expert" would
ever commit such a serious violation. If a doctor were to do
such a thing, he could probably lose his license and certainly
would not be considered an expert' in his field in a court of
law. Looking back on it, it is certainly not unreasonable to
believe that they should have been dismissed on the spot,
However, the Youngs promised they would reform and that it would
not happen again. What compounded this incident was that both
Vaughn and Stacy were legally, married to others at the time,
introducing adultery into the picture.
This story is not an attempt to just trash the Youngs, but to
provide an accurate from which to understand how they arrived at
the point where they abandoned their own spiritual enlightenment
and turned to evil where they now I . find themselves in the pay
of an extremely unscrupulous attorney (who has been accused by a
former associate of having sex with minor boys).
The main point of this is simply that the unfaithfulness in
their personal lives has been going on for a long time and
extends through two marriages and to the people the), were once
friends with in the Church. (This incident was not the first
time Vaughn had committed adultery. While married to his first
wife, he had several extramarital affairs with women who were
also married.)
Even so, despite how the Youngs now portray with heavy
bitterness what happened, they were not treated harshly by the
Church over the matter but were offered help to overcome their
lapse in personal integrity. The evidence shows that the stories
the Youngs now tell are done to enhance their earning power in
collecting fees for being witnesses in court for opposition
lawyers looking to make a buck.
Instead of harsh treatment, the Youngs were given every
assistance to resolve the matter. Eventually they divorced their
then-partners and later married each other. Instead of learning
from the harm which this sort of betrayal creates for others,
history would repeat itself after the Youngs left the Church.
While living high on the hog, earning thousands of dollars in
witness fees for bearing false testimony, against former friends
in the Church (testifying on behalf of a known lying criminal -
Steven Fishman and his wacko psychologist) Stacy became involved
in yet another extramarital encounter which resulted in a tubal
pregnancy (not by Vaughn) which of course necessitated
considerable financial expense to the Youngs, for an operation
to terminate the pregnancy.
No one wishes to see the Young's suffer. On the contrary they
have been repeatedly warned against the course they have
embarked upon, not because of anything the Church would do, but
because they are now driven by a mixture of hatred and greed and
are being trapped by their own destructive acts despite the pain
it is bringing to their lives.
As to Vaughn, he is also no stranger to this pattern of
betrayal. Admittedly, he began his road to infidelity with
prostitutes and under-age girls. His first dalliance was with a
minor, with whom he had regular sexual relations for four
months. To many this sort of thing sounds harmless or the
tribulations of youth. However he did not stop in his Young. In
another instance, while a house guest of some friends, Young
regularly peeped down their young daughter's blouse at her
breasts and took every opportunity to rub her back, although he
was a grown man. His behavior became so evident and
reprehensible, that the girl's parents threw him out of the
house. The question has to be raised, what the hell was doing
that has never been found out if he 'A was be I ng so blatant
with his friend's underage daughter?
Flaunting Church ethical principles, Vaughn secretly continued
his deviant behavior. On one occasion unbeknownst to anyone at
the time, he misused his position while working on a project out
of town, to attempt to seduce a 16 year-old female assistant
whom he had coyly arranged to stay in his hotel room. The
incident only came to light when the frightened and shaken girl
reported the incident to Vaughn's superiors: "I woke up about 3
am to find Vaughn in my bed telling me he was going to rub my
back He started rubbing my lower back By this time I was getting
very nervous and upset and not sure how to get out of this
tactfully. Then he stared to move closer to my chest and I
jumped up and said I had to go to the bathroom. He made a sound
as if he was asleep. When I got back he was in his bed, he
reached over when I got into mine and patted me on the head.
"I fell asleep - then at 6 am I woke up again to find him next
to me - again he was rubbing my back but his hand went up my
shirt front. I shoved it away and told him to get in his bed and
let me steep. He turned over as if in his steep and eventually
went to his own bed. This time I was really scared and I didn't
go to sleep for one and a half hours."
Vaughn, who was 47 years old at that time, was shown this letter
from the girl and asked to respond. He claimed that she had
awaken and that he was only rubbing her back to put her to
sleep, however his written statement at the time belies what was
really going on:
"I sat down on the edge of the bed and began to rub her back to
put her to sleep. I continued to rub her back and her breathing
began to grow even. My mistake was then not getting up. Instead,
I laid down on my side, on the right side of the bed, popping my
head up with my right hand. She was now laying on her stomachI
rubbed her back and her neck for some time as I found it
relaxing also. I remember laying there just rubbing her back
with my eyes closed.
"As far as touching her breasts, she was on her stomach. I think
twice I ran my hand across her back (I had rubbed up and down
and then went from one side to the other) and then slightly down
the ribs, I encountered what would be the flesh side of the
breast. I did not dally on it nor did I message the side of her
breast. I spent the time on her back and neck."
His flimsy explanation was not bought by his superiors, who had
no other choice but to remove him from his position. His
attempted molestation of one of the Church's members had been
outrageous, What possesses a 47 year-old man to make sexual
advances toward a 16 year-old girl who has been entrusted to
help him its his assistant?
Rather than society's choice, which would have been outright
dismissal or possibly jail, Vaughn chose to enter the Church's
voluntary rehabilitation program. Today, Vaughn continually
makes outrageously false statements about alleged hardships he
experienced while doing this rehabilitation program (the RPR He
of course leaves out the real reasons that he was sent to be
rehabilitated i.e. he could not be trusted to keep his hands of
underage girls and thus was potentially a threat to them and to
himself. Perhaps the smartest course of action would have been
to dismiss him right then and be done with it, but because Young
wanted to remain, he was given the option of proving he could
manage to keep his unethical impulses in check and to
rehabilitate himself.
The real truth about the RPF, is that Young faked his way
through and was never honestly doing the program. Even so, what
he is saying now about the RPF is nothing like what he describes
in his written report about how the program was. Youngs wrote
after completing the religious[sic] counselling program which forms
part of the rehabilitation program:
"so... to summarize it? -an amazing adventure into (and through)
one's sell its well as another and others.
"I wish all others similar gains and knowledge -' but done
easier. One is responsible for one's condition. And more. And
more again.
"Pretty amazing stuff."
So the reader is not mislead, Scientology auditing is quite
effective and routinely produces miracles, however it requires
one's active participation and it is clear that Young was just
not up to the standard of ethics needed to ensure his own
advancement.
In whatever way Vaughn's perverted behavior was being held in
check while he was a member of the Church, once he left and
apparently the peer pressure which was acting as a restraint on
his anti-social impulses came off and Young was left to his own
devices.
This became evident when it was learned Young was in touch with
a perverted old woman who was publishing pornography on a BBS as
a way to attract men with whom she could have affairs.
Regardless of his motive, Young started editing hardcore
pornographic material for a woman he met on a Computer, bulletin
board called "Easystreet," and whose computer name was "Redhead."
In one letter to Young, introducing him to her latest sex
stories which she was asking him to edit, "Redhead" described
one of these stories as "a man I was to meet and possibly have
an affair with." and another as "a sex story about a pre-teen."
She credits Young for restarting in her porn- story career, and
wrote "the last two chapters (of the pre-teen sex story) since I
have been talking to you."
Vaughn's answer was to give her his telephone number and suggest
times she could call when his jealous wife was away. (Note,
rather than face the consequence of engineering an encounter
with another woman and getting caught in the act, Young has
apparently convinced Stacy that this whole affair was actually a
set up and that his lapse in faithfulness was really something
which was staged by an investigator. Nothing could be further
from the truth.)
Vaughn's activities are reminiscent of those of former CAN
president, Michael Rokos, who resigned from his position in
October 1990, amid a flurry of publicity exposing him as a
pervert found guilty on the charge of "soliciting lewdness."
Cynthia Kisser, who tried to cover up Rokos' criminal
conviction, was the executive director of CAN at the time.
This story is only printed here to present perspective and to
expose the real motives of the Youngs. Since the Youngs chose
any public forum to lie about the Church of Scientology it is
important to know that the are completely mercenary and only do
it for money. Just ask Wollersheim: he could not get their help
until he agreed to pay the Youngs $5,000 per month from the
FACTNet insurance funds.
Stacy and Vaughn currently live in Seattle. Stacy says their
move was motivated by family reasons and their own "Scientology
affair." She even gave her husband that as the reason when she
moved there ahead of him. However, it later came to light that
her Northerly exodus was motivated by an affair of an entirely
different nature - one which she does not publicly discuss.
Following the same "auspicious" pattern with which she launched
her marriage to Vaughn, Stacy began an affair with Bob, the
bosun of a cruise ship, while on a trip to Mexico with her
mother. Stacy began the sexual relationship, unbeknownst to her
mother, who later said, when asked about it, "That's impossible,
she's married!"
Bob's account of this meaningful relationship, however, is quite
different.
"The ship usually had old women on it," he said. "Stacy was on
board and she wasn't wearing a wedding ring and she kept on
flirting with me. When at sea you get horny, and Stacy was an
available and willing piece of ass." Stacy explained she was
married, but that she and her husband had an "understanding."
Though she kept saying how much she liked him, Bob let her know
he was only interested in a one night stand. A few months later,
Stacy went to Seattle where the cruise line offices were
located, pretending to be ,vorking on an article for an LA
magazines She interviewed everyone at the cruise line office so
that she could contact Bob again. When she did, she told him
again how much she liked him. Bob paid little attention to what
she said, but willingly accepted another opportunity to have sex
with her in her hotel room Stacy then moved to Seattle, and Bob
spent several days in her apartment. She told him she did legal
work for her husband, a very successful attorney and that she
earned $20,000 to $50,000 per year.
She also kept telling him how much in love with him she was, and
that she had moved to Seattle just for him.
In a rare moment of honesty, she also admitted that she had
become pregnant after having sex with him the first time on the
ship. At that point Bob ended the meaningful relationship. The
last time he saw her was in June 1994.
The story might have ended there but it did not. While the cat's
away the mice will play. And while Stacy enjoyed her
infidelities in Seattle, Vaughn was having yet another affair
elsewhere.
Vaughn who was still living in California, took the opportunity
to begin a new affair. this time with a woman named JJ, who he
met at a local spa, The affair lasted for several months, and
might have continued longer, had a by now upset Stacy not
insisted that Vaughn move to Seattle to be with her.
Vaughn's relationship with JJ was getting too out of hand, even
for Stacy. JJ flattered him and Vaughn talked about how she
thought lie was the best lover and a great guy.
He claimed, however, that she was very shallow and they didn't
have much to talk about. But he felt that he had the best of
both worlds - great sex with JJ and intellectual conversation
with Stacy.
But Vaughn was in a real bind. He didn't want to lose either one
and had to lie to both. He felt JJ was getting "really close"
(she wanted him to marry her - the other side of the coin from
Stacy's affair!) - and though Stacy knew about his affair. he
hid just how involved that relationship had become.
Stacy tried to accept all of this as a natural part of their
"understanding," but in fact became very upset, as she was also
aware of several other women with whom Vaughn had had affairs
during the same time period.
Stacy said that she would have been more worried about JJ if she
didn't think that Vaughn loved her, although she admitted being
upset it away by saying that Vaughn was simply getting in touch
with his feminine side, which is a phase some people go through.
Incredibly, Stacy has even given a tearful speech during which
she has sought to place the blame on the Church's doorstep for
her marriage being on he rocks several times even a fool can see
that her own unfaithfulness is to blame for any wedge that has
been driven between them. The point of this is not to embarrass
the Youngs for being unfaithful, but rather to show, that no
matter what it is that has gone wrong in their lives, the Youngs
refuse to be responsible for the circumstances they find
themselves in and to show that as a matter of personal history,
they call in no way be objective about their pronouncements
about Scientology or people involved in it. They can only take
their own impressions and artfully and purposely twist them to
make them sound as negative as possible as this is what they get
paid for.
Although it is always regrettable to see any marriage in
trouble, these two have created their own problems.
End of histories.
I told you, it just keeps getting better and better...
Bob Minton
From: bob@minton.org (Bob Minton)
Subject: Scieno Assault: Trash the Critics and their Friends-3/4
Date: Fri, 09 Oct 1998 19:12:04 GMT
Message-ID: <3624583b.11733210@news.tiac.net>
THE TRUE STORY OF VAUGHN YOUNG AND STACY YOUNG
One of the most absurd falsehoods which Stacy Young once
tearfully related to a CAN audience several years ago was that
the Church had attempted to break up her marriage and was still
somehow trying to do so, even while she and Vaughn Were at a CAN
convention. While this makes for a great cult victim story,
Stacy's story and reality are far apart. Telling a lie over and
over does not make it the truth no mailer how many people repeat
it, no matter how much sympathy it evokes.
Personal and confidential (Some people might think this means
"Don't show Bob." But Bob thinks it means "Show Bob.")