jyo asked this question on 7/12/2000:
HI THERE I M SO FUCKIN CONFUSED I DONNO WHAT TO DO NE MORE. I CHAT A LOT ON THE INTERNET AND I MET A GUY FROM MY CITY ON THE CHAT AND WE STARTED DATING BUT THEN THINGS WENT WRONG SINCE WE HAD DIFFERENT RELIGIONS AND WE HAD DIFFERENT TIMING OF OUR JOBS SO WE COULD HARDLY EVER GET IN TOUGFH NE WAYS WE BROKE UP CAZ ONCE HE CALLED ME AND I WAS ON THE CHAT WITH HIS YOUNGER BROTHER AN DI TOLD HIM TO HANG ON I HAVE TO LOGG OFF FROM THE NET HE THOUGHT THAT I SAID I WAS TALKING TO MY OTHER BF BUT IN REALITY I DONT HAVE ANY OTHER BOY FRIEND. I LOVE THIS GUY WITH ALL MY HEART BUT I JUST COULDNT TAKE THE ABUSIVE LANGUAGE HE USES WHEN EVER HE GETS UPSET SO WE BROKE UP AND I STILL LOVE HIM WE BOTH STILL GO ON THE CHAT AND NOW HE IS DATING ANOTHER GIRL FROM THE CHAT ROOM AND I M SO HURT. I DONNO
MarieMc gave this response on 7/12/2000:
First of all, you are better off without him, anyone who would end a relationship for a stupid reason like that, has a screw loose. You're a smart girl, you know you don't deserve to be treated how he treated you, doesn't matter if you were arguing or not, that's still no excuse for abusive language, doesn't matter how pissed off a person is. He isn't ready for a relationship, he sounds really immature, and I honestly think you should just move on, meet someone else if you like and be happy, get past him, you don't need him, I know you love him and it hurts like hell, but if you keep walking now, you're going to look back and go, "thank god I didn't give that idiot another chance", I swear, it's true. Best to you, Marie