frankmon asked this question on 7/11/2000:
I've been dating this guy for 5 months now. Recently he decided he just wants to be friends, because he is not ready for a relationship right now. he says that I made him the happiest he had ever been, but it's all him and nothing about me? We still see each other and enjoy each others company, but I am confused and don't know what to do.
shortcake8200 gave this response on 7/12/2000:
Dear Frankmon,
If you make him the happiest he has ever been then why would he need other reasons not to be with you. If he doesn't listen to you when you talk that is not something you want to spend the rest of your life with, is it? On the other hand, maybe plan a romantic dinner (or night) with him and express your feelings to him that way. Don't wear anything too sexy or he won't be listening to you anyway. But when you do tell him how you feel don't tiptoe around it just get to the point. This may seem a little too foward but good luck if you choose my advice and let me hear from you either way!!!
Love, Shortcake8200