Anonymous asked this question on 7/12/2000:
Men:
In most of your responses there is an indication that in acts other than making love, there is no emotional involvement. Is this what you really feel? You see, when I am kissed romantically, I am involved emotionally. When I am involved in the depths of passion, the words I utter are emotional unless I have no soul! That is who we are as women I believe. How could we offer of ourselves so freely without also sharing our emotional being? Thoughts on this are deeply appreciated.
Magic7474 gave this response on 7/12/2000:
There is an old saying that men give love to get sex and that women give sex to get love. I dont know that I totally agree with that statement but I will say that it does have some merit. I am sure that you know that men and women think differently and that we are in fact very different. More so than just the plumbing, we both may end up at the same destination, but take completely different paths to get there. Speaking from a mans point of view... I know that I try my best to please my lady in every aspect that I can...Since if is hard for me to "understand" her way of thinking...I have to ask her sometimes to explain it to me as though I were a six year old. It may take some getting used to...but if you have the right soul mate...and if he is truely interested in making you happy...sit him down and tell him what you are thinking. Men, for the most part, are willing to give it their all to make there mate happy...but sadly we don't always know how...since we think and react differently to situations that woman would consider no-brainers. So, please ladys....help us men out and tell us what you want us to do for you...be specific...Men tend to be logical in their thinking while woman lean to the emotional side...we do compliment each other...but some times...both sexes need to sit down and attenuate the confusing static between us...We (men) are contumacious by nature and I think it is this rebel within us that is part of the attraction....
Hope that this helps
Best
Magic
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