n_j_stringy asked this question on 7/12/2000:

I need advise I know I'm an expert but I'm stuck. I'm dating this guy. We've been really good freinds for awhile but, he was grounder when we first started dating and he got un-grounded Monday and he promised he'd call me. But he didn't. I don't know what to do. His dad is a jerk and doesn't let him talk on the phone much but he could call when his dad wasn't home couldn't he. I just don't know what to do, because there is this guy that i like and he kinda likes me and he can drive and we would ba able to see eachother but I don't know if I should dump my b/f and go for the other guy or should I just wait until he calls me and he gives me in explantion. Please help. Thanxs, NJStringy

Rhaven gave this response on 7/12/2000:

Greetings..

There could be a number of valid reasons why your significant other has not called.. Therefore, do not count him out just yet.. Be patient and await to hear from him.. If you truly desire to communicate with him, write letters.. It is a Federal offense to open someone else's mail without prior consent, court order, threat of safety, etc..

If you decide to leave your current boyfriend for the other person who can drive, then ask yourself the following questions: 1- What are you leaving? 2- What are you gaining? 3- Are you interested in the other person just because they can drive? 4- Are you interested in the other person because the two of you would be able to spend more time together?

I hope I have been of service to you or someone else..

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