Anonymous asked this question on 7/12/2000:

I have had this friend for a good many years; while I became a plain common person, he is quite the opposite: 32, very handsome, athletic (played football a lot), gets on easily with people, graduated from a famous place, he is smart and professionally very successful. The proverbial winner... Well, we were taking about girls the other day and he confided to me that "no woman can resist him, single or otherwise" if he really wants to have her. Of course I was bothered by this bragging (although he DOES get a lot of beauties) and mentioned married girls that I did not think would fall for his advances; he answered with a sly smile that he was sure they would think about him as they cuddled with their boyfriends or husbands. I was shocked because even discounting the bragging he DID seem to believe that. This left me saddened, because on thinking about it I feel that many beautiful people may also be like that. Now for the question: is it really so, beauty/success are irresistible? And even if that may be so, is a girl being unfaithful if she DOES remeber such a person while with her loved one?

tink1972 gave this response on 7/12/2000:

Sad to say, it is the truth for a great deal of this world! Beauty and success is very much irresistible.

We were talking on the board about these type of people who also have very nasty attitudes but some women will deal with this just because he is handsome and is slightly successful. Needless to say, where the blame should go, I believe we all know where the blame lies

As for your last question, I really don't believe its being unfaithful if you have a thought or two about a past lover as long as you keep it as a mere thought! As long as no physical activity is going on then you're all good!

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