saurabh50 asked this question on 7/10/2000:

hi there... just wanna know that is it possible to find out about the virginity of a girl byu having sex with her?? if yes.. then how?? what's the difference between having sex with a virgin and with a non-virgin ??

sex_guru gave this response on 7/11/2000:

It is really impossible to tell unless her hymen is intact. That is a small piece of tissue that lies within the vaginal canal. If it is broken, that doesn't mean that she isn't a virgin, it can break spontaneously or from riding horses, etc.

The difference? Usually virgins are more timid, it sometimes hurts (usually does) and sometimes they bleed, otherwise, no difference.

saurabh50 asked this follow-up question on 7/11/2000:

okay..now... this my girl has been swimming for about 2 years and was involved in some physical exercises like running,etc... her hymen is already broken (but i don't know how!!)... now... we are ready to have sex... now when i have sex with her....how can i come to know that she is a virgin or not?? P.S. : thanks for answering my query :)

sex_guru gave this response on 7/12/2000:

You really cannot know for certain. You just have to belive what she says and trust her.