Anonymous asked this question on 7/12/2000:
yes , im a 24 year old male with a question for you.... i have a problem meeting women these days for several reasons it seems. first off im never around any . secound off in this day and time i feel that aproaching a women these days will just give her the impression that all i want is sex....im not an ugly guy and plenty of people have complemented me on my intelect as well as other things...i just dont know how to get that first foot in the door of trust if you know what i mean.....can you give me any advice on how women like to be aproched....and how to let them no from the start your looking for something more then a 1 nite stand.....it would also help if you could give me tip on how to tell if shes interested before acul verbal contact....thanks
mhardenbrook gave this response on 7/12/2000:
This is tricky since there is an age gap here. I have children your age so I know some things about young women of todya, but I fear not nearly enough and there seems to have been a shift of sorts in young womens attitudes in the past decade, but I will try to help you as best I can. SO long as you do not talk about sex to a woman when you first meet them, they should not be under the impression that sex is what you are after. If you see a woman that is attractive to you, make eye contact, if she smiles, that is a postive indication that she atleast would talk to you. If she turns her face away, then she wants nothing to do with you. It would be helpful if you knew people that would introduce you to single females, like at parties or gatherings of some sort where there is a group of people, this is very non threatening to young women. When you see someone while you are on the street, in a store or some other public place and go through the smile routine, you have no way of knowing if that female is attached to someone already and you will end up spending alot of time smiling at females that have boyfriends or husbands. If a women you are speaking to fiddles with her hair, licks her lips she is attracted to you. If she folds her arms across her chest, then she is shutting you out and wants you to go away.