frankmon asked this question on 7/11/2000:

I've been dating this guy for 5 months now. Recently he decided he just wants to be friends, because he is not ready for a relationship right now. he says that I made him the happiest he had ever been, but it's all him and nothing about me? We still see each other and enjoy each others company, but I am confused and don't know what to do.

jennifer463 gave this response on 7/11/2000:

I know that going from lovers to friends is hard to do, but sometimes worth it. I was in a similar situation. My boyfriend decided he wanted to be just friends. We had been dating for awhile. I was heartbroken, but decided to wait it out. After a while of casually seeing each other... and him dating a few others, he decided that he couldn't live without me and got back together with me. Like I said I know it isn't easy! It tore my heart out. But in the end... it was worth it. Give him some time and some space. See what happens and where it goes. It just may work out in the end! Good luck!

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