dino890 asked this question on 7/11/2000:
i was going out with this guy for 3 month. We had sex wich i felt that i forced into. Suddenly he decides that he wants to go with my friend. He says that we can still have sex and going out. Does he still like me and how could i get him back since my friend doesn't like him.
ljack55 gave this response on 7/11/2000:
This guy is a jerk. He is using you for sex. And, you wonder why your girlfriend doesn't like him? Why don't you ask her? She can probably point out what a jerk he is and hopefully set you straight.
Anytime you feel that you are "forced into sex" should be an indication that having sex was not the right thing to do. Having sex with someone is supposed to make you feel wonderful, not make you feel used and question why you did it. This guy is bad news. He doesn't like or respect you. There is nothing you can do to change his mind about you but to ignore him. That is your best bet. If you ignore him, he might at least respect you. But, more importantly, you will respect yourself.
I suggest that next time you decide to have sex make sure you do it when you feel ready not when you think someone is forcing you to do it.