frankmon asked this question on 7/11/2000:

I've been dating this guy for 5 months now. Recently he decided he just wants to be friends, because he is not ready for a relationship right now. he says that I made him the happiest he had ever been, but it's all him and nothing about me? We still see each other and enjoy each others company, but I am confused and don't know what to do.

esmith105 gave this response on 7/11/2000:

Unfortunately, I was in the same exact position with one of my exes and he is trying to do so again for the third time. He said he was very happy but was not ready for a relationship. He only seemed to want to be with me when it was convenient for him, or when the intimate relations were good. But lately I have woke up to reality to realize that he will never change. A guy who thinks he knows what he wants one day and then not the next, chances are, he just wants someone to be there when he needs it. He is only considering himself and his own feelings and not yours. Although he may care about you, something is keeping him from being able to commit to you in the way in which you deserve and you can do better. If you are looking just to hang out whenever, then this situation may be ok for now. But if you are expecting a relationship, in the long run you will get hurt and you should move on before allowing this to happen. If a guy thinks he can walk all over you, trust me, HE WILL!!

Hope this helped and good luck!

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