dino890 asked this question on 7/11/2000:

i was going out with this guy for 3 month. We had sex wich i felt that i forced into. Suddenly he decides that he wants to go with my friend. He says that we can still have sex and going out. Does he still like me and how could i get him back since my friend doesn't like him.

Wave69 gave this response on 7/11/2000:

Dar dino890,

first I would get your friend to talk to him because if he keeps pushing foward for her and she doesn't even like him,he needs to know that to keep the relationship between you two.Also,why is he doing this to you? Do you think that he can all of a sudden try to go out with your friend but still have sex and go out with you too,I don't think so,I say if this goes on any further you need to break-up with him,I mean who does he think he is? Leaving you for your friend,and she doesn't even like him,is he trying to be stupid and that girls will "understand",talk to him and tell him if this goes any longer that you will put him off,and that he can't order you around and just go off with someone else,you have a good love life I think,but with a person like that,they can't just go off and have their own fun,I mean tell your boyfriend if you ever did that and went out with one of his friends,how would he feel about it,tell him that you feel cheated on,and that you can't stand this happening,and that if he does like you,he wouldn't be doing this to you.Think about it.

sincerely, Wave69