CatGirl25 asked this question on 7/11/2000:
Hi. I am a 25 year old single mom of a 9 month old. I really want to have a relationship with a man. It is hard for me to get out to go to clubs, ect. Therefore, I have been meeting men online. My problem is that I really have no babysitter so I can't come and go as I please. Will I find a man who will understand and put up with this? Right now I am interested in this one guy. He lives 2 hours away and wants to meet half way sometimes. How do I explain that I can not just do this on call? And that my daughter will most likely have to tag along?....Thanks
tink1972 gave this response on 7/11/2000:
A issue like this one, you know what you have to do but it is very disappointing to do!
You have to find real men or a Real Man who understand that your child is priority and anytime left you'll be more than pleasesd t spend with them or involve your child as well on some dates.
Yes, these type come a dime a dozen, but, its a sacrifice that MUST be made until the little bambino can be left sometimes with a responsible family member.
I am pregnant now with my first child and I use to love to party and still do but I know that I don't need to be doing all those things right now. It hurt my heart to miss out going out with my friends and stuff but my baby inside of me is worth more than a smoky club right now.
Be patient. You will find a man who can love you and your child. You know why? Because there is somebody out there for everybody! :) Believe that!
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