Anonymous asked this question on 7/11/2000:

Help, I'm a twenty-year old female and I've been with about 8 guys in my life time. All have different sizes and styles, The problem is no matter how good the sex is or how much I feel for the person or how good the person is orally or even how thick and long the person is I WILL NOT HAVE AN ORGASM. What's wrong could I possibly have some kind of sexual disfuncntion, I mean I'm supposed to be in my peak or at least experiencing all kinds of pleasures, what can I do??? I feel like I'm the only person who has not climaxed. HElP

freeblueone gave this response on 7/11/2000:

all woman are different some take a lot more forplay then others i dont think you have a disfuncntion try explaning to your partner what you need what feels good and what exsite you sex doesnt start in the bedroom soft music good dinner cuddleing curessing the fear the excitement the wait the unknown some times the hands play the biggest part of a womans climax once you have reached the womans first climax useing your hands then the rest will come along i always try to make sure my woman gets one befor i worry about my self and it takes a combenation of all to get that first one so dont give up and make him take his time on you first dont rush it

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