frankmon asked this question on 7/11/2000:

I've been dating this guy for 5 months now. Recently he decided he just wants to be friends, because he is not ready for a relationship right now. he says that I made him the happiest he had ever been, but it's all him and nothing about me? We still see each other and enjoy each others company, but I am confused and don't know what to do.

SeekTrueLove gave this response on 7/11/2000:

Dear frankmom,

Sometimes it is just "all him" and has nothing to do with you. He obviously likes you and wants to maintain a relationship with you, but he might feel too strongly about possibly ruining a serious relationship until he deals with his own inner issues.

So it's best to just give him his time (and space if he needs it), and see where it leads. Of course, you don't have to wait around forever for this guy, but that's the decision that you would have to make.

Hope this helps.

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