foxjay asked this question on 7/8/2000:

I have been going with my girlfriend for about 5 months. Our realationship started off as friends..she was in a bad dealationship at the time. And we became closer as a result of this...she broke up with that guy and we started haveing an intimate realationship after this. Then she goes out one weekend with her girlfriend and meets this guy and starts to hang out with him without telling me. Then one night she showed up late and when I asked why she was late she said she hung out with this guy that she met a few weeks ago..and she didnt want to tell me because she didnt want me to freakout...Then she told me sha has alot of guy friends and she allways will and I "will just have to get use to it" So if there are any guys are girls out there who are in or have been in a similar situation I could use some input on this..

Weddinggrrl gave this response on 7/10/2000:

I used to have more male friends than female, and it was only because I connected better with men at that point in my life. But I wouldn't be hanging out with an ex while I was dating someone. I just don't think that's right, unless she had been friends with him for ages.

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