marianyahuye asked this question on 7/10/2000:

I am a single lady with two children. How do I tell a maried man that I am not interested in forming a relationship with him. I know a relationship like this will not get me anywhere because I know that it is not true love that they want from me. It is just lust, to put it blankly.

Terry2351 gave this response on 7/10/2000:

Marian: Just the way you said it is fine. Just be blunt with him.. Let him know you are NOT interested in taking up with a married man and then tell him to come back when he is no longer married. If this bothers him then oh well... It is his problem not yours. And you are right, you hook up with him you are in it for the lust and nothing more. If that is all you want, then tell him that as well. But don't let yourself get sucked into anything you don't want or the one that will end up doing the hurting is you.