Anonymous asked this question on 7/9/2000:

Hi, This is I think most commonly asked question. About Anal sex. I am a married man with succesful three years. My wife and me are having good sexual relationship. We both tries to do it in different ways for a fun. I wanted to do a anal sex with her, but she is not ready for that. Ofcourse she is having very small anal spot. But is it really difficult or painful? If not how can I convince her for that?

Thanks for your help.

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Weddinggrrl gave this response on 7/10/2000:

If she isn't ready, she isn't ready. If you want to encourage her, do so in a way that makes her feel comfortable. Don't push it. Some videos or books may help her open up to it a little more.

There's no way of knowing whether or not it will be difficult or painful, but my guess is that yes, it will be uncomfortable. It might get better and easier as you "practice".

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