Anonymous asked this question on 7/10/2000:

okay i'm 18 and my b/f of almost 2 years bestfriend is or has already fell for me and i'm falling for me and my b/f have to many problems his friend is a sweetheart i really like him. help me i'm so confused what should i do in this sitution?

MarieMc gave this response on 7/10/2000:

This is a nasty situation, if you break up with the boyfriend and start dating his friend, the boyfriend is probably going to hate the both of you. You'll ruin his friendship with his best friend. Wow this is a tough one, has he actually said that he's fallen for you? It sounds like you've invested a lot of time with your boyfriend, and sometimes when you're having problems, the grass seems to always look alot greener on the other side of the fence. I suggest seriously sitting down with your boyfriend and telling him, that if he wants this relationship to work, these are the things that need to be worked on, talk about all the problems you're having, tell him honestly what is bothering you about your relationship, the issues you have with it, and then see if you can reach a solution, I don't think you should give up on him because there is someone else who is interested in you. Give him a chance, give your relationship at least a chance to work the kinks out, you do love him don't you? Best to you, Marie

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