Anonymous asked this question on 7/10/2000:
Me and many girlfriend have been together for nearly 18 months. She has been deep in Love with me and wanted to spend her life with me.
I Love her as well but I asked for some space in the beginning of June. I asked for that space because I couldnt see how she was transmitting her feelings for me as it wasnt obvious.
2 days later i didnt want that space as i had realised that she has been showing her feelings for me in her own way which she is comfertable with. But she said that she doesnt know if she can trust me with her feelings and that what if next time i break up for good..so now she wanted space to sort her head out.
I wrote her a long letter confirming my true love for her so after 3 weeks we met 2-3 times...got on...kissed and cuddled. But we still hadnt talked about the situation and sorted things out...
The other day we talked and she told me that she does still Love me but doesnt feel the same powerful love as she did before i asked for some space. She said that she is now not clear about whether i am the man she wants to spend her life with. She does want to sort things out and does hope that things will be ok.
I told her that she cant go back into that powerful love again overnight...it will take time. She understood that and said that 'we'll see how things go'.
So please can you tell me: what can i do to make her fall more in love with me again, as she was before ?
What should i avoid doing ?
Thanks in Advance
YOU_AND_ME_PERSONALS gave this response on 7/10/2000:
Remember what you had is gone, you won't ever have that same feeling/relationship again. The past is the past. You may have similiar feelings in the future. Your request for some space has really upset your girlfriend, perhaps she was having some doubts herself and your request made her realize this, and she is transferring these feelings now since you made the first step. Be careful and make sure she is really the girl for you. If she is encourage her and renew your feelings of love. If not break it off and move forward.
Today is a good day, tomorrow a great one
TM
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