Anonymous asked this question on 7/13/2000:

Hi.

I have a problem I've delt with for most of my life. I can not cum from masturbation nor from oral sex. Of course, because of that problem, another arises. I have difficulty lasting more than 5-15 minutes in bed. This poses a problem because my current girlfriend takes MUCH longer than that to be satisfied. I've tried numerous things to help me with my problem. I've purchased toys (I bought a vibrator for when she comes over and I can't satisfy her) but I want to be the one giving her pleasure. I don't mind having her cum all over the thing but I would like, just once, to feel her cum with it being me inside her. Anyway, I also tried getting a perscription for viagra. That helps.. (a little) see, all that does is help me get an erection again in a shorter ammount of time. I want to wait until she's done before exploding inside her.

If anyone has any suggestions, they'd be well appreciated.

Thanks, Longing to last longer

Angela_AdviceGirl gave this response on 7/13/2000:

So I am guessing that since you got a prescription for viagra that you have talked to your Dr. about this..? Just making sure it is not something medical. Since you are on viagra why dont you cum and then play with her for a while then go again and repeat? I heard if you get the 1st one out it takes longer for 2nd and even longer for the 3rd. That will give you time to get her ready. Then you can go at the same time. That is the best. Or play with her til she is ready to cum then put it in and do it at the same time. That way you made her ready when you put it in.