Anonymous asked this question on 7/12/2000:

Hi:andrea1 I have a serious problem. I have been "seeing" this guy for a little bit over a year and he continuosly lets me see him making out with other girls. Everyone keeps telling me that I need to loose him but I really love him. He is seven and a half years my elder and also have two kids. He was also the first guy I have been with sexually. I know I love him because I see myself growing old with him and being happy with him. I love his two kids very much and I know it is because they are a part of him. I thought he wanted to be with his baby mother and was willing to let him go, but when he is with me I always feel like that's where he wants to be. I have finally decided to let him go because I realize that I need to find something else, if not someone else to make me happy. I know it seems that he just wanted sex but that just happen recently even though we never had a real date. Please help me decide WHAT TO Do.... Confused...

andrea1 gave this response on 7/13/2000:

I believe I already answered your question yesterday.