jyo asked this question on 7/12/2000:

HI THERE I M SO FUCKIN CONFUSED I DONNO WHAT TO DO NE MORE. I CHAT A LOT ON THE INTERNET AND I MET A GUY FROM MY CITY ON THE CHAT AND WE STARTED DATING BUT THEN THINGS WENT WRONG SINCE WE HAD DIFFERENT RELIGIONS AND WE HAD DIFFERENT TIMING OF OUR JOBS SO WE COULD HARDLY EVER GET IN TOUGFH NE WAYS WE BROKE UP CAZ ONCE HE CALLED ME AND I WAS ON THE CHAT WITH HIS YOUNGER BROTHER AN DI TOLD HIM TO HANG ON I HAVE TO LOGG OFF FROM THE NET HE THOUGHT THAT I SAID I WAS TALKING TO MY OTHER BF BUT IN REALITY I DONT HAVE ANY OTHER BOY FRIEND. I LOVE THIS GUY WITH ALL MY HEART BUT I JUST COULDNT TAKE THE ABUSIVE LANGUAGE HE USES WHEN EVER HE GETS UPSET SO WE BROKE UP AND I STILL LOVE HIM WE BOTH STILL GO ON THE CHAT AND NOW HE IS DATING ANOTHER GIRL FROM THE CHAT ROOM AND I M SO HURT. I DONNO

tink1972 gave this response on 7/13/2000:

Those type relationships rarely last anyway, although, there is a small percentage that do make it.

However, don't accept anyone especially someone who claims to love you, to talk abusinve to you often. Its not any call for that all the time.

So, its at our best interest that he found another girl to lay that abusiveness on. Believe me, you can find a person to love who will love you and not talk to you as if you are their enemy.