Anonymous asked this question on 7/9/2000:

I have beeen dateing this girl for about 3 months now. Everthing is going good exept that when we have sex she orgasms right away. I mean after a few minutes of intercourse. Which is ok I guess exept that she usually wants to stop. I wish she would let me just keep goin though...I mean I cant IMAGINE WHAT IT FEELS LIKE to her after you come. I mean she does have a really intense orgasm now and then so its good for her I have tried to talk to her about it , I told her to "IMAGE IT from my side how when YOU JUST COME right away and want to stop it leaves me hangin.. she told me that when we are makeing love she feels this really intense feeling in her abdomen that builds like a volcano and the erups and the more you try to control it the more it just overflows...she said she has been this way allways and I shouldnt complain....I just wish she would be able to prolong her ORGASM or LAST LONGER..do you know of any technique for women to do? I have tried too by going slower etc and she still COME FAST NO MATTER WHAT

missthang gave this response on 7/13/2000:

dear guy in distress,

gee, i can feel where you are comming ( no pun intended ) from. i remember this guy i used to datre about 3 years ago, he'd do the same thing. i mean, it couldnt have been a good 10 minutes andd he was done! well, enough with my story and on to yours.

instead of getting upset, start doing different things like more four play, doing it more than once, and definatley changing positions. changing the position should do the trick. the one that should do it is doggy style ( you know, get it from the back ) or, if this doesnt work, let he ride, if she doesnt know how, teach her, and dont say how. all you have to do is guide her. i'll be willing to bet you that if you getting it from the back doesnt work, riding will........ OR............... have you ever considered that you could be so good to her until she cant help but come fast? i mean, i understand that you want to get one off, but, if your member is good, and the right size, and you know how to hit it right, she cant help it, i know that would be what i'd say to you.(*actually, i'd be saying more than that*you know, a little moaning, alot of calling your name,*) so you may just be that good, so if this is the case, you will have to try different stuff. if you are making her come like that, she's completely happy, but you must let her know that you are frustrated and need to let it go.