Anonymous asked this question on 7/12/2000:

I have had this friend for a good many years; while I became a plain common person, he is quite the opposite: 32, very handsome, athletic (played football a lot), gets on easily with people, graduated from a famous place, he is smart and professionally very successful. The proverbial winner... Well, we were taking about girls the other day and he confided to me that "no woman can resist him, single or otherwise" if he really wants to have her. Of course I was bothered by this bragging (although he DOES get a lot of beauties) and mentioned married girls that I did not think would fall for his advances; he answered with a sly smile that he was sure they would think about him as they cuddled with their boyfriends or husbands. I was shocked because even discounting the bragging he DID seem to believe that. This left me saddened, because on thinking about it I feel that many beautiful people may also be like that. Now for the question: is it really so, beauty/success are irresistible? And even if that may be so, is a girl being unfaithful if she DOES remeber such a person while with her loved one?

muffin1960 gave this response on 7/13/2000:

Every athletic handsome build guy isn't that way. though alot are.

But if you are with someone and thinking about someone else that in itself is not fair to the person your with.

When your with someone if that person can't hold your complete attention than maybe, your not as interested in that person as you thought.

Note: Some time beauty and build is only what it is worth if the person doesn't have substance. Also, remember the wheel of fortune always turns and what you do to someone always comes back double or triple depending how it comes. His day will come and he'll have to feel what he dealt out to folks.

Everyone does things that are wrong, but when you do it continually then your not sorry about it.

Hope this helps

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