Anonymous asked this question on 7/9/2000:

i really like this guy and his 22 and i am 17. we don't really know what to talk about but we have the best sex. i do really like him . we go out a lot but he hasn't called me in two days. i told him last time we spoke i told him that my mum knew that i was sleeping with him . do you think that he is using me . what should i do

star_girl gave this response on 7/13/2000:

well, i wouldn't exactly think that he is using you, because you are letting it happen. he isn't giving you sweet promises that never come true, you just have sex and then you have ended up getting attatched to him. i think that you may have scared him by telling him about your mom knowing that you are having sex, because there are laws in some states that prevent someone his age having sex with someone your age. your mom can turn around and charge him with statutory rape. and then he would go to jail. so that may be why he hasn't called you recently. but if you really like him, tell him. i will tell you this, though... if you have nothing to talk about, then it's probably not going to last. it will got boring and you will end up fighting more then getting along. i hate to put it so bluntly, but i just want to tell you the truth. so talk to him, and share your feelings, but don't get too attatched, because it may not work. only time will tell. love- star girl