Anonymous asked this question on 7/13/2000:

That is a serious question. I've asked a few women that question now and then, and they nearly always assume I'm being facetious. I'm not: I'm serious.

I find men repulsive; disgusting; repugnant; offensive looking; nauseating. Why do some women kiss such gross creatures?! Their bodies are gross; their penises are revolting and loathsome. Do women desire men sexually? Is there some kind of mental block that keeps them from seeing how repulsive men are?

I am genuinely perplexed. Common sense dictates that women would never look at a man sexually because men are so vile and disgusting. But common sense also dictates that enough females submit to the revolting beats long enough to get pregnant--- otherwise the species would not exist.

Why do some women have sex with men?

ibbluesgal gave this response on 7/13/2000:

I wish I knew whether you were a man or a woman, but I'll assume a woman. First off, you're partially right. Some men are "repulsive" and gross, then again, so are some women. I can name a multitude of men which I find very attractive, although when you really love a man, based upon non-physical reasons, he is usually attractive to you. Maybe you've just had some bad experiences, or maybe you should watch some of the hunks on TV or at the movies. I can't help but have a feeling that you may have been hurt in some way by a man, in a physical or sexual way. If so, I understand why you feel the way you do. If this is the case, you've got to deal w/ this before you can find men attractive. Nice people, in general, are attractive because their personalities are attractive. Let me know if you've got any more questions. ibbluesgal