Anonymous asked this question on 7/12/2000:

Men:

In most of your responses there is an indication that in acts other than making love, there is no emotional involvement. Is this what you really feel? You see, when I am kissed romantically, I am involved emotionally. When I am involved in the depths of passion, the words I utter are emotional unless I have no soul! That is who we are as women I believe. How could we offer of ourselves so freely without also sharing our emotional being? Thoughts on this are deeply appreciated.

Angela_AdviceGirl gave this response on 7/13/2000:

I also become emotionaly involved easily. I have gotten hurt so many times because of this. Men well most men do not get emotionly involved easily. Most of the time when they kiss it is getting closer to sex to them. I have found that sex is what is most on there minds. Again not all. Kissing a man to me is full of emotions. It is something I dont do often or for no reason. I just had to learn the hard way with this. I just stopped doing anything with a man until I felt sure I wouldnt get hurt. Sometimes that didnt work eigther.

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