Anonymous asked this question on 7/12/2000:

I'm 14 and i have been friends with this girl for about two years, and I have been really nervous to ask her out because I'm afraid of rejection or embarassment if she says no. We are about the same age, and I like her a lot. What would be the best way to ask her out, or if she likes me without having to worry about the forementioned?

Thanks

star_girl gave this response on 7/13/2000:

since you guys have been friends for as long as you have, you can just talk to her about it. next time that you two are alone, just be like, "i have something i need to talk to you about" and explain to her how you feel, and explain that you still want to be her friend and everything if she doesn't want to date you. that way it's a very low pressure situation and you can both be honest about how you feel without trying to impress anyone. i have a feeling that this won't be as hard as you expect. good luck!!! love- star girl please scroll down and rate so that i know you have read my response! =)