Anonymous asked this question on 7/13/2000:

That is a serious question. I've asked a few women that question now and then, and they nearly always assume I'm being facetious. I'm not: I'm serious.

I find men repulsive; disgusting; repugnant; offensive looking; nauseating. Why do some women kiss such gross creatures?! Their bodies are gross; their penises are revolting and loathsome. Do women desire men sexually? Is there some kind of mental block that keeps them from seeing how repulsive men are?

I am genuinely perplexed. Common sense dictates that women would never look at a man sexually because men are so vile and disgusting. But common sense also dictates that enough females submit to the revolting beats long enough to get pregnant--- otherwise the species would not exist.

Why do some women have sex with men?

SeekTrueLove gave this response on 7/13/2000:

Dear Anonymous,

Yes, seriously, many women do desire men. They desire men enough to actually have sex with them. In fact, many of them do enjoy it.

At the same time, there are some women that probably share your opinion that men are vile and repulsive. However, the women that I know who think this way have reasons.

First of all, they are lesbians in which case their natural predisposition is to NOT be attracted to men. Also, if they are not lesbians, then they had been cruelly wronged or brutally abused by men in the past which causes them to lash out and hate all men in general.

I am not sure why you hate men so much. But for many generations, women generally desire and love men the same way men generally desire and love women. I guess it's just nature.

Regards.