cmawalden asked this question on 7/12/2000:

I have been in a troubled relationship with someone for five years. Recently, we both decided to work through our issues with a professional. No sooner than we agreed to get assistance, my companion of five years did an "ABOUT FACE" without any explanation whatsoever. It as if we never had any discussion and we have not been in contact. It is as if he has just dropped out of sight. I feel devastated by this? When I attemted to get in touch with him in order to find out where things stand, it was as if --NO CALL,NO SHOW, ABSOLUTELY NOTHING. In fact, he is completely unavailable.

sex_guru gave this response on 7/13/2000:

This seems to be a obvious sign that your troubled relationship is over.

Don't take it personally but men tend to be big weenies when it comes to asking for HELP. He seems to think that he doesn't need any. These are the ones that usually need the most.

Move on and put it behind you as best you can.

Take care.