Anonymous asked this question on 7/12/2000:

Is it possible for a man to love a woman and care nothing about his own mother? If he can't help her out when she needs it, will he be able to help me? And my second question is: Why do most black atheletes turn to white women instead of their own race? I'm not prejudice, but all women are not money hungry.

Omega2000 gave this response on 7/13/2000:

Anonymous: I was quite intriged with your questions.As for the first one: If a man does not love and respect his mother then he most certainly not love and respect you as a woman.Beware of this kind of man.It has been my experince that this type of man will keep confusion and possibly be abusive towards women. Second question: It not really about money with the black man. Its what I like to call the forebidden fruit syndrome.Years ago when it wasn't safe to date someone of a different race blacks and whites would have clandistine affairs.Thus keeping both parties safe.I think now that when black men come into money these days and choose to date a white woman it really is about being able to show off their money statis and a white woman. This is not to say they don't love them,I personally belive that there are some underlying issues that cause this attraction in the first place. After all society has told blacks on all social levels that "if it ain't white,it ain't right." However there are some famous blacks that are married to black women. I hope I was able to clarify some things for you on these issues. Omega2000