Anonymous asked this question on 7/12/2000:

Men:

May we have your opinion on the difference between making love, having sex and you know...

thank you

Pioneer57 gave this response on 7/13/2000:

For me there are two types of sex.

1. Making love: I make love to a woman I genuinely care about. There is alot of emotion involved. There is lots of foreplay and there is usually alot of laughter and smiling while making love. Making love to a woman for me allows me to let go of everything, I do much more and I treat her like a woman and not like some piece of trash on a one night stand. Not saying i treat one night stands bad but there is definately a difference. I will not perform oral sex on one night stands.

2. Sex: One night stands or women i haven't fully connected with. Usually these are the women i have no foreplay with and its usually i bang the hell out of them and then i go to sleep (lol). There is no emotional involvement so it's pretty much I'm just getting my rocks off.

I definately prefer making love than just having sex because I like waking up to the woman next to me in the morning. I love to feel her body wrapped next to mine. Watching her sleep while i make her breakfast in bed. There is so much more i will do for someone i am in a relationship with. There is so much involvement when i am making love to a woman than just straight having sex.

when there is no love in love making it's just a routine and doesn't mean anything.

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