Anonymous asked this question on 7/12/2000:

Men:

In most of your responses there is an indication that in acts other than making love, there is no emotional involvement. Is this what you really feel? You see, when I am kissed romantically, I am involved emotionally. When I am involved in the depths of passion, the words I utter are emotional unless I have no soul! That is who we are as women I believe. How could we offer of ourselves so freely without also sharing our emotional being? Thoughts on this are deeply appreciated.

Pioneer57 gave this response on 7/13/2000:

First off this is a guy answering this question.

Personally for me kissing is a wonderful expression of love for a woman. I do prefer sex but if a woman prefers to be passionate in the way she kisses it does my heart good. Most guys have the thought pattern that they show their love through sex. We aren't programmed from birth to express our emotions. Instead we are told to be strong and never cry. When me and my ex-fiance parted ways I cried for weeks. I was in a depression for about six months. I loved this girl with everything in my soul. Just to kiss her lips would make my heart skip beats. Most men dont get in touch with their feelings because they were forcefed that they had to be strong and crying was for girls. I bought into that until my ex-fiance tore my heart open. For the man that can show emotion that is a man you can trust because he is honest with his feelings. Some of the most evil men you will ever know never cry... I could keep rambling but i'm probably boroing you.

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