Anonymous asked this question on 7/13/2000:

I'm a 30 year-old, female real estate agent who works in a affluent area, selling condo's out of a building that's just converted. I myself live in a middle-class area with my father. I meet alot of well-to-do men, because I'm attractive. However once I tell them I still live at home, they get turned off, or treat me in a condensing way. I do pay my father rent, and own my own vehicle, I'm also practically debt free. I do plan on moving out, once I have enough savings & downpayment. If I meet someone in the meanwhile, should I lie? Or avoid the subject?

Pioneer57 gave this response on 7/13/2000:

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If you lie to him about something as simple as you living at home and he finds out then he will never be able to trust you and you two will not have a good relationship.

Be honest and straightforward with men, if they cant handle then they dont deserve you. Its that simple. If they cant respect the fact that you live at home even though you have the means to move out. If they cant understand that you have goals and attaining those goals is easier when you can save at home then those men aren't worth being with. Especially if your as attractive as you say you are, you should be dictating the terms not them.

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