marianyahuye asked this question on 7/10/2000:

I am a single lady with two children. How do I tell a maried man that I am not interested in forming a relationship with him. I know a relationship like this will not get me anywhere because I know that it is not true love that they want from me. It is just lust, to put it blankly.

SeekTrueLove gave this response on 7/10/2000:

You are right in knowing that not too many relationships with married people end up working out in a good way. In fact, most times it is the third party that ends up losing the biggest.

How do you tell a married man that you are not interesteed in forming a relationship with him? Just tell him. Not only with your words but also you actions. Do not give him any opportunity to think that you will give him what he wants. This could also mean staying away from him if possible. If this is occurring in a work environment, then you are also treading in sexual harrassed territory.

Anyways hope that helps.

Good Luck.