marianyahuye asked this question on 7/10/2000:
I am a single lady with two children. How do I tell a maried man that I am not interested in forming a relationship with him. I know a relationship like this will not get me anywhere because I know that it is not true love that they want from me. It is just lust, to put it blankly.
muffin1960 gave this response on 7/10/2000:
Your correct, relationships like those rarely end up with good intentions. Some have been known to get more financial support from these types of relationships.
You want someone of your own, sharing is not a good thing. I've done it and wasn't all that pleasant I was happy in spurs not all the time. I'm still involved with it. I wouldn't advise it. Tell him the same thing you wrote and just be friends with him if that is possible. I wish I would of had your way of thinking before I got started with my relationship. Your on the right track follow your mind.
GOOD LUCK