duckie582 asked this question on 7/9/2000:

ok..I have no problem having an orgasm when my boyfriend uses his hand or his toungue...but when were having intercourse..i dont even come close..I want to be able to climax..inside..not just on the outside...if you know what i mean...is theyre a position or technique we could try?

SeekTrueLove gave this response on 7/10/2000:

Dear duckie582,

Obviously you are one of the many women out there who can climax usually with just clitoral stimulation. So I suggest the following...when having intercourse have your boyfriend stimulate your clitoris with his fingers; this can be done more easily from a rear-entry position. Or when in a missionary position, you stimulate your clitoris with your own fingers, just as if you are masterbating.

Or you can try the "CAT" technique. CAT stands for "coital alignment technique" which basically has you on your back with your legs close together. Your boyfriend would mount you from a slightly higher up position (that is, his pelvis is slightly aligned higher than your). When he enters you, it is at more of a downward angle than what you are used to. When he thrusts (actually the action is very subtle) his pubic bone (the bone just above the shaft of the penis) will grind against the top of the vagina in the clitoral region). Thus, you are having intercourse with clitorol stimulation. Studies have shown that women are more likely to have an orgasm this way that by just regular intercourse.

Hope this helps.

Good Luck.

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