Anonymous asked this question on 7/9/2000:
Hi, This is I think most commonly asked question. About Anal sex. I am a married man with succesful three years. My wife and me are having good sexual relationship. We both tries to do it in different ways for a fun. I wanted to do a anal sex with her, but she is not ready for that. Ofcourse she is having very small anal spot. But is it really difficult or painful? If not how can I convince her for that?
Thanks for your help.
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behappy4u gave this response on 7/10/2000:
My boyfriend and I have been together a long time so a year ago he started asking to do anal also.We watched a couple porns and they seem to be really enjoying it so we tried. I hated it at first, and would only let him do it for a couple min because it was uncomfortable. well as time goes on when we do this its always uncomfortable the first couple seconds but then after I usually orgasm the most intense one from this.My suggestion is to watch a porno together with anal sex involved so that she can see how enjoyable it can be.If that dosnt work explain to her that you have been researching all this and it is only uncomfortable at the beginning. Alot of people will tell you to let her get used to it by finger insertion but that feeling does nothing sexually for the person,its only when the penis is in all the way that the G-spot gets rubbed. Let her know that it is a good way to stimulate the G-spot.Most women would love to experienc g-spot stimulation. I know you relize that she has to be relaxed and the only way I would ever try it before is if I had a couple glasses of wine to relax me so you may want to try that.I tell all my friends how enjoyable this is and 90% of them think Im crazy so she may never warm up to the idea. Good luck .
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