foxjay asked this question on 7/8/2000:

I have been going with my girlfriend for about 5 months. Our realationship started off as friends..she was in a bad dealationship at the time. And we became closer as a result of this...she broke up with that guy and we started haveing an intimate realationship after this. Then she goes out one weekend with her girlfriend and meets this guy and starts to hang out with him without telling me. Then one night she showed up late and when I asked why she was late she said she hung out with this guy that she met a few weeks ago..and she didnt want to tell me because she didnt want me to freakout...Then she told me sha has alot of guy friends and she allways will and I "will just have to get use to it" So if there are any guys are girls out there who are in or have been in a similar situation I could use some input on this..

muffin1960 gave this response on 7/10/2000:

I have the same problem. Wghat you have to do is determine how close these friends are and what they do woth them. Are they friends she hangs out with or are they friends that she does the things that she does with you. After you find this out then you can determine whether you want to continue seeing her or not.

But at least they admitted it to you and didn't lie, so ask and be sure what the situation is than decide.

GOOD LUCK

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