Anonymous asked this question on 4/24/2000:

I'm 15 and my boyfriend is 17, he say he loves me, but is rushing to have sex even though he say we will be together forever

fastest222 gave this response on 4/25/2000:

Well, to give your boyfriend a tiny excuse for his actions, I can tell you at that age, many young guys have little else on their mind and are more than not ruled by their hormones.

He may really love you but he is having a hard time holding off because of what his body is telling him to do.

You are right to stand your ground on this one. If it is real, HE WILL WAIT. You on the other hand, if you break down and give in to him, you may regret it in a year or so when it doesn't last and you're ready to look for someone else.

There are plenty of kids that are waiting these days. They are making the right decision. I promise you if he gives you up because of this, even though you may have heartache for awhile, you'll know you made the right decsion in the long run.

Good Luck m'dear!

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