jodiann64 asked this question on 5/8/2000:

What do you do when a family member accuses you of abuse but actually its the other way around. And no matter who you talk to it is a totall waist of time because you have a bad tracct record for things that you have done in the past. But not only are you suffering but your children are suffering also.

carlita1 gave this response on 5/12/2000:

I need a little more information before I can give a detailed answer. What is your history that people won't trust you? Is the abuse you suffered at the hands of your accuser a criminal offense? What is your relationship to this person? How old are your children and are they being abused, or is their situation a product of your abuse? Please give me more details so that I can make some specific recommendations.

No matter what the details, I can tell you that you need to keep yourself and your children away from this person at all costs. Your physical and mental health and safety (and that of your children) depend on it.