jodiann64 asked this question on 5/8/2000:

What do you do when a family member accuses you of abuse but actually its the other way around. And no matter who you talk to it is a totall waist of time because you have a bad tracct record for things that you have done in the past. But not only are you suffering but your children are suffering also.

Paul157 gave this response on 5/8/2000:

There are many types of abuse. At one time or another we are all guilty of some form of abuse. We all should "check our backyards" for the garbage. That does not make any form of abuse right I say this to show you that you are not alone. There are many people trying to get help in this area.

It does matter who you talk to. You need to talk to those people that are impartial to your needs and will help you. Seek out a behavior management counselor. There are many that can help even if the money is tight. If they can't, ask them for a referral to someone that can help on a limited budget.

There is help...you need to ask for it and you need to do that today!!!

Best wishes!!

Paul157 gave this follow-up answer on 5/9/2000:

Were you looking for someone to waive the majic wand? Why would you rate this as you did? You asked for help and you have received some advise. Take the good, leave the bad and move on but realize these experts have better things to do than sit around and come up with good advise only to be slapped in the face for their suggestion.

jodiann64 asked this follow-up question on 5/10/2000:

If you had read my comment, I wrote I did not submit this question. I suspect that some one has used my name either by accident or as a way to stay annonymous. I usually ask health related questions. I have e-mailed the people at the office that there has been some type of error and need them to let me know what I am to do. I am getting lots of answers to someone elses question. On the other hand you may want to reconsider this line of work. If someone were to rate your answer low, you should not take it personally, there are lots of ignorant people who do not take suggestions well, they as you say want a magic wand answer. I have only been a member a few weeks and tried several times to get someone to correct the problem without giving a rating as I felt it were not my place its not my question. I thought if I gave a low rating someone would read the comment I submitted as well. Be well friend The real Jodiann64

Paul157 gave this response on 5/10/2000:

Thanks for you return message. I feel bad for being so blunt. It is to bad that this has to be this way! We should be able to enjoy this site and I am not enjoying this at all. You do not need to respond.

Best wishes and again, thank you!

The average rating for this answer is 1.1.

jodiann64 rated this answer a 1.

I did not submit this question and would like to notify you that there has been an error. I primarily ask health related questions thank anyway