Sagirl2005 asked this question on 4/27/2000:

I was absused by my ex boyfriend. He would hit,punch,kick me and throw me down stairs. He would tell me things like I dont have anyone but him,and that without him Im no one. For a while I believed this, but I realized that I didnt need him or his abuse. I was also raped by an ex. I was 16 he was 26. I said no,but he pressed harder against me forcing me to cry and rither in pain.I broke up with him two weeks later. We stopped talking for a while,then we hung out one day. It happened again. I'm am scared of being in a relationship,I scared of being touched,kissed,held,because when I think of that it reminds me of him. Can someone please help me?If so please e-mail me Sagirl2005@aol.com

Sarah32 gave this response on 5/10/2000:

It is always a little scary after you have been raped and abused to get involved in another relationship. At this time in your life you need to go through the healing process and have faith in the Lord. When times get the hardest that is one you can always count on. I have been through what you are going through and I have learned that through time and dealing with the issues head on instead of forgetting about them that things always work out. Give it some time and one day you will be able to handle a relationship when the right man comes along. Just do not let anybody tell you that you can not make it without them because you can. As long as you put your faith in the Lord anything is possible.

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