Anonymous asked this question on 5/3/2000:

what should you do if you find out your boyfriend of 3 years molested his sister.

Sharon65 gave this response on 5/10/2000:

Hi Anonymous,

For you to ask this question I can tell you are really bothered by this information. There are no easy answers. You have to do what is right for you. First of all, is it still going on? If not then you have to answer the question for yourself as to whether you want to stay in this relationship or not based on the information you were given. I know it's a tough decision, you have been with him for 3 years, there are a lot of feelings involved. Personally I have been in a simular situation and found that being a survivor of child molestation I had to leave. I couldn't date someone who I knew took advantage of a child.

If you need to talk more I'm here. I won't take as long to answer next time. I've been away..... But I'm back.

Take Care, Sharon