jodiann64 asked this question on 5/8/2000:

What do you do when a family member accuses you of abuse but actually its the other way around. And no matter who you talk to it is a totall waist of time because you have a bad tracct record for things that you have done in the past. But not only are you suffering but your children are suffering also.

wwnelsonfive11 gave this response on 5/8/2000:

Hi Jodiann:

You've given good information, but there is some I'd like to request as a clarification.

Is the accuser/abuser living with you? And, specifically what abuse has taken place.

Unfortunately, we are often judged by our past mistakes. It takes a lot of proof to cover a few mistakes in our world. However, you are more what you are today than what you were yesterday.

I would suggest that you don't try to handle this situation by yourself. Enlist some help from your local crisis center or contact the local abuse hot-line. There are concerned people there to help you.

Please be careful because of the possibility of CPS becoming involved. Child Protection Services do a service for the community. However, they can, also, cause a lot of harm in their efforts to protect the children.

So, contact these helpers and get them on your side.

Would like to hear from you if you would like. What kind of abuse is accused? What kind of abuse is being done? What is the relationship of the accuser/abuser?

Thanks

William

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I did not submit this question whats going on