jodiann64 asked this question on 5/8/2000:

What do you do when a family member accuses you of abuse but actually its the other way around. And no matter who you talk to it is a totall waist of time because you have a bad tracct record for things that you have done in the past. But not only are you suffering but your children are suffering also.

ROSETTA900 gave this response on 5/8/2000:

jodianna64:

Good Morning! After reading your letter you seem to be in a situation where you feel there is no where to turn for help or support. But there is, have you contacted your local dv sheter program for support?

Tract records are hard to break, but you must stand up for yoursel and be proud of who you are and that you have changed.

I have learned that people that do not accept change and always critize others , seem to need to cleam up their own back yards. Their way of making themselfs look better than another.

Perhaps not communicating with those accusing you of abuse would be a good thing. Focus on yourself and your children and forget the people that are always bringing you down.

Have you tried to seek any online support groups for extra support? I have a listing of those if you would like them. Please feel free to email me for that list. Rosetta900@aol.com

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Im not sure why but Im receiving someone elses question on my e-mail I did not submit this question. I will have to contact the home page to see whats going on.