AprilBreezes asked this question on 5/6/2000:
I have a strange problem. I have an active libdo and I need sex often. The problem is my boyfriend wont let me go out with other guys for sex. That sounds normal so far right? Well, here is where the problem lays. After my boyfriend and I have sex, he gets very irrate, and calls me names like whore, slut, cheap c#nt, and that sort of things. He also tells me how Jesus is going to condem me to hell and Satan owns my soul. He dont think of these things before sex, but after, he get wierd!!! I have tried to break up with him, but he says he'll never break up with me. He will make sure that I never leave him! HELP! What can I do? He even thinks using dildos and other sex toys to please myself is enough to "beat me back to God" so to speak. If you have any ideas, I would be so thankful. April B.
Jason4U22 gave this response on 5/7/2000:
I wouldn't let you go out either if you were my girlfriend. That isn't a relasionship if you would even consider to do so. I can't believe that you would even consider asking your b/f that question. I don't know how often you want sex, but you can also get you some toys. There is a such thing as being addicted to sex. They have groups that meet, and talk about differant issues concerning the addiction of sex, and some throw out suggestions of what you can do to cope with it. I do hope that you haven't asked your b/f that question, and if you have, I'm sure it is going to be very hard for him to trust you, I know it would be for me. Another thing you don't deserve to be called all of those names. I mean if you ask me, neither one of you should be judgemental. You two are living together, which is a sin. SO he doesn't have a right to say anything about you going to hell. I don't usualy discuss religion, but I had to throw that in. I think you need to go to counceling, both you, and your boyfriend. If you have asked him the question about going out with other guys for sex, then thats the reason he calls you all of those names. If you don't get some counceling, the relasionship isn't going to last, and it could get worse for the two of you. I wish you had put your age in the question. I wish you luck. You do have a "big" problem, but it can be helped if your willing to go to counceling, and joining a group.
Jason4U22
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