AprilBreezes asked this question on 5/6/2000:
I have a strange problem. I have an active libdo and I need sex often. The problem is my boyfriend wont let me go out with other guys for sex. That sounds normal so far right? Well, here is where the problem lays. After my boyfriend and I have sex, he gets very irrate, and calls me names like whore, slut, cheap c#nt, and that sort of things. He also tells me how Jesus is going to condem me to hell and Satan owns my soul. He dont think of these things before sex, but after, he get wierd!!! I have tried to break up with him, but he says he'll never break up with me. He will make sure that I never leave him! HELP! What can I do? He even thinks using dildos and other sex toys to please myself is enough to "beat me back to God" so to speak. If you have any ideas, I would be so thankful. April B.
AuntRoe gave this response on 5/7/2000:
A high sex drive only becomes a problem when it controls you life. TAKE CONTROL. The problem you are having with you boyfriend is not about sex. He wants control. He is trying to break you down so that no matter what you do, you will feel dirty. This may be hard to do, but leave him. Keep a good distance and yes, look over your shoulder. Be prepared. Do not allow him to intimadate you, but you must be careful. He probably thinks you are not able to function without him. As for the other guys, I can understand him not wanting you to go there, but for him it may be for all the wrong reasons. I'm saying don't go there because you will only find yourself in another bad situation. As you use them for sex, they will use you for sex. Maybe several at a time. If you must take care of the drive, do it yourself. Until you are ready to take on another partner, it will keep you out of any further harm.Speak to a doctor. I'm not saying there is anything wrong with you, you need to understan what is going on. If it is physical there may be something to help you "slow down" a bit. If it is mental, you need to understand that first. Remember, TAKE CONTRL and good luck. Aunt Roe
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